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I graduated from college about a year ago now already (Spring 2009). I did work hard for my degree, and I went away to college to earn it. Well I have been out of school since then, and I recently moved back home. Unfortunately, I still have not had any luck in landing a job in my field. Whenever I meet up with old friends to talk about what we’ve been up to, I just feel like a loser. I fortunately have been accepted into a few graduate schools. My friends either have the dream job or the dream man and I have neither. So I feel like a complete loser saying I live with my parents and I am holding a job at a clothing store. I don’t know what else to do though. I’ve gone to numerous job fairs and put out hundreds of resumes. My friends that don’t have the dream job, are getting married, and I am single. My friends are either looking forward to moving to the big city and making huge $, or they are looking forward to getting married and moving in with their husband. I just feel so stuck. I am so discouraged, and just need some suggestions?

Don’t feel bad! I’m 24 years old, still single, live with my parents(which can be a pain in the butt sometimes), work in retail (which can get annoying so I feel you on that) and in process of getting an Associates Degree in Culinary Arts, I also plan on moving to California and go to school out there to get my Bachelor’s Degree in Hospitality & Management. I have friends who have boyfriends, are engaged, a few are married, and even have kids. Why should I let that make me feel bad about myself? Think about it. Take time to focus on what YOU want. Find a hobby or do something for yourself. What makes you happy? Love yourself first and foremost. You’re a bright person and things will come in time! Stay strong, pray for what you want, and work hard for it too! You’ll be fine. I hope that helps you.

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I graduated from college about a year ago now already (Spring 2009). I did work hard for my degree, and I went away to college to earn it. Well I have been out of school since then, and I recently moved back home. Unfortunately, I still have not had any luck in landing a job in my field. Whenever I meet up with old friends to talk about what we’ve been up to, I just feel like a loser. I fortunately have been accepted into a few graduate schools. My friends either have the dream job or the dream man and I have neither. So I feel like a complete loser saying I live with my parents and I am holding a job at a clothing store. I don’t know what else to do though. I’ve gone to numerous job fairs and put out hundreds of resumes. My friends that don’t have the dream job, are getting married, and I am single. My friends are either looking forward to moving to the big city and making huge $, or they are looking forward to getting married and moving in with their husband. I just feel so stuck. I am so discouraged, and just need some suggestions?

It’s the struggles you face during tough times that build your character. Would you rather work hard on your way to a successful job and relationship? Or would you rather luck into a good job and relationship. You value things in life much more when you work for them.

Hi,
from January 1st my hubby and i said that this year we will try for another baby so our son who is 14 months will have at least a 2 year gap between his sibling, I have this feeling I’m pregnant, I feel fine but just tired unless its just lack of sleep now my normal cycle is every 26 days but in december I had my cycle twice, first one started on dec 7 2009 and last 5 days, then I got them again on december 28 and lasted about the same time, with our first child it took us 7 months to fall pregnant, so what do u think should I wait till end of the month before I buy a home test or get the home test now. I forgot to mention with Noah I only had morning sickness at beginning and 3 times in 2nd trimester.

Also for the first time last week I had this weird dream that i was giving birth even could feel myself reap down south.

Dee

U need to wait till u miss your periods .to take the test.
Best of luck and
GB

I recently was pre-approved for a home loan for 120,000 in Florida. I started looking and found my dream house. Upon going to the community b/c I had to go through their lender to get approved my credit dropped from 627 to 542 in a month. I had a non payment from Verizon Internet from 12/2006. I paid them in 03/2009 ( on the advise of the lender who gave me the pre-approval) and asked that it be put as a error ( deleted ) from my credit report. I was told that only the collection agency that my case was given to could do that. Called them and they told my Verizon had to do it. Also I was late by 30 days on my student loan payment. Two questions: 1) Can I raise my credit score enough in 6 mths to purchase a house and 2) Is it true that the creditor has to erase it or Verizon or is this a myth. FYI I have no car payment or major credit cards, just store cards which are currently paid off, please help, any advise welcomed.

If you already paid them you have no leverage in which to remove it from your credit score what you needed was a pay to delete letter prior to paying the debt, as of now there is nothing you can do about it. You also cannot remove the 30 day late listing. ?1 keep paying your bills on time and do not use those credit cards. ?2 It is a myth the account is only marked as paid as I stated earlier it is to late to have it removed as you have admitted and paid the bill you have no leverage.

My best friend died at 28 on April 25, 2009 while she was with me at a party, it was unexpected as she was not complaing of anything that night, she does however frequently have anxiety attacks, but we are still waiting the autopsy. Her stepsister told me last night tat she had a dream and that my best friend told her to tell her mother she is not dead and that she is coming home.. I am still shocked because this is kinda freaked me out.. I am just trying to figure out how to interpret that dream?

Her step sister is saddened by this loss and wishes that it was all a hoax or something…that she was alive and not dead. I’m sorry you’ve lost your friend. I know that must be very difficult for you. It’s hard to lose someone you love. But she’s passed on. She’s in a better place. Just remember all the good times you shared with her. Remember all those good memories. That’s all you can do. Give it time and the pain you feel now will feel less and less painful. You’ll always have a place for her in your heart.

So it started as I was in my room and my sister and mom were rearranging it for some reason. (I did clean/rearrange my room about a week ago) (I’m 15 btw) And then all of a sudden I ended up in like the 1960′s in a classroom. I was just like cheering up the kids by giving them high fives because the teacher was mean to them. (I’ve been home from school for the past 3 and a half days from the flu) Then like I was at like another school, but a high school. (Still in the 1960′s) And I saw my friends there. And they said the only reason they came to the 60′s was to smoke weed. (None of us smoke) So I watched them smoke it and pass it. Then I said "Why are you guys worrying about weed!? Lets get out of here!" But, they didn’t say anything. So I went into the high school type thing and went to this guy who time travels people. (lol) I asked him to time travel me back to the 21st Century. So I layed down and he started saying where I needed to go. As I was listening to him, I saw these like blue flashing lights with numbers in them. He intructed that I’m going to 2009 and that it was January. I yelled, no I need 2010, Febuary! So I liked entered that blue light and ended up in my room lieing on my bed. It was 2010, but it was January. So anyway, as I was sitting in my bed, I saw my mom crying and my room was being taken out. And then I woke up. For me, it was a very scary/disturbing dream because it was sooo vivid. So any dream interputers out there, please help.

Thank you.

Perhaps you feel that things were better in the past than they are now but you learn things are always the same

Okay, so I always have some kind of dream about my ex. Also I tend to have many dreams that come true, passing cherry blossom trees while driving down the road, as well as other everyday things. Okay, for background, My ex and I have been separated for over a year now, though we still see one another regularly at church. Communication stopped completely (no hello, no goodbye, no I’m sorry i accidentally hit you in the face with my bass guitar, etc.) in march of last year (2009, what a year, eh?). Well despite the lack of communication I often catch him looking at me, and it makes me wonder if he’s still experiencing the pain of the breakup that I’m already over. I was his first girlfriend, he was 18 at the time (home-schooled is the answer to the question in your mind right now) and he asked me to marry him. I wanted to say ya, but I thought we were too young to get into that just yet. so I said let’s wait to ask that later. Okay so usually my dreams show how he seems all the time, inconsiderate to me, going about his business acting as though I don’t exist. But last night there was an anomally. He was looking at me, sitting right next to me smelling my hair. And when he went down on stage he was looking up at me smiling. I don’t know why I was upstairs at church, unless the pews on the 1st floor were full, esp. on a sunday. Also they were on the steps in front of the stage rather than on the stage where they regularly are. Dream interpretation/ relationship advice, anyone? Thanks.

the cerry blossom = love
The symbols show, that he could be an important person for you, or he is only a symbol for your desire for social contacts. Smelling your hair is your desire for sex, maybe with him. But you must vanquish a barrier.

Maybe you are still in love with him and you wanna have a relationship again.

In a news article on CNN
In today’s space race, watch out for China

http://edition.cnn.com/2009/TECH/space/11/18/china.space/index.html

It had this one quote in the article
"There is tremendous excitement in China about the space program. Most Americans take the space program for granted. A shuttle goes up, and everyone yawns,"

When I was much younger, (I am hitting 59 in a month) I was raised on Mercury, Gemini and Apollo and then the greatest achievement of all, the moon. Then Kurbricks 2001 hit the Cinema and I hit the Airforce and I had dreams of one day soon, working in space. Then the dream died, and we ended up bickering about it, saying we can’t, it’s too expensive, we shouldn’t, it can’t be done and we have more important things to do at home, like supporting our military presence around the globe and putting the countries needs closer to our vision of space today. Thus all those dreams were put on the back burner to simmer in a long slow slow cook where one day my grandchildren, that have not been born, may live my dream.

China is on the fast track to make it happen.

Have we lost our vision, our dreams, and our pride in the process?

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TIFF
That is exactly what I am saying. John Kennedy set a goal and we achieved it, now we no longer have goals. We just muddle along from one crises to the next, semi rudderless.

Sprio Agnew (who I pretty much detested – Nixons VP before he was ousted for past corruption) publicly said that we will put a man on mars by 1990 – or was it 80? he was quickly silenced and it was then that I started to realize we were losing our vision, losing our goal, and would start to lose as a country.

It may not be your dream, but it is a goal, and now what we have is over 300 million goals and no real direction. We have lost a significant amount of our pride in the process and what our pride consists of is too fragmented to guess. It can be one thing for you, another for someone else, the list is endless.

It really is about one goal, that is how humans are.

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Setting one national goal like Kennedy did will result in everything else falling in place behind it. Germany and Japan, through national pride tried to conquer the world, we, through our national pride could conquer space — which is a damned site better then war and mayhem.

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As much as I dislike Obummer, he is far from the only cause that the American Dream has become an American Nightmare. His policies have greased the skids but he didn’t push the sled alone.

I was part of the Mercury, Gemini, and Apollo mission programs and will always remember the overflow cheering crowds in Time Square and anywhere else they were shown. The only time in history that television actually got it right. If you dare look into the funding you will find it was the Democrats leading the fight to kill space exploration.

i am 17 but will be 18 in 2009 and i need to get a job to support my fam since my mom cant work anymore.

I really wanted to go to college but i cant and i dont want to work at kernals or burger king.

The one place that i loved going to was home depot with my uncle. I like the smell and the atmosphere of all the tools and lumber and all the neat stuff they had there. I always seemed to have happy times going to Home Depot. So i really want to work there.

Does anyone know what steps to take to getting a job at home depot? I would really aprechiate it because it would be a dream to work there. Thank you.

You can apply online at: https://careers.homedepot.com/cg/? or go to your local store and fill out your application/take the test on the jobs kiosk near the store entrance/special services desk. You have to be 18 to work there regardless of your position. March is a big hiring time for Depot as Spring is their biggest selling season (I worked there for 8 years, starting as a cashier and leaving as an Assistant Manager). They don’t pay as well as they used to and part timers get very few hours in the off seasons (part timers frequently only got 4 hours a week in January and February) so if you get a job, try to get full time. Just know that the higher you move up the ladder in that company, the worse you get treated. ASMs were frequently working 70-100 hours a week and you are salaried at that point so no OT. That’s why I quit and so did 72 other salaried managers in my 7 store district over a period of 2 years. Good luck. (BTW, Lowe’s is no better. Same poop, different color.)

For the passed 4 months i have been having dreams with my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me for stupid reason, he was my first love and we broke up around 2005. Then after 1 year of not talk to each other, he emails me on my bday wishing me a happy birthday.

We started to talk again and then we started dating again. the thing is he lives in another town so we are about a 11 hour drive from each other. Anyways we got back together in 2008 and i moved up there with him. In 2009 we had problems and he broke up with me. Which was fine like the old saying goes " fool me once shame on me, fool me twice shame on you".

So i moved back to my home town and he and i have talked for about 4 or 5 months now. But ever since then i have been having dreams about him. Some where he says that he is sorry for hurting me and that he still loves me. Another dream is when i was with his little sister and he was there. She said that we need to make up and talk to each other. So we talk and cried in each others arms.

My dad thinks that i dream about him is because he is trying to get me back with him. Which i don’t want to but yeah i kind of do miss talking to him. But i know whats going to happen…just like last time he is gonna come back to my life.

Anyways why do i have dreams about my ex who has hurt me not once but twice??? Please i need some advice about this.

Your not satisfied with the way things happened so your sub conscious is trying to get some answers